Or a brief history of Alex.
Alex was born almost 2 weeks overdue, nearly 10 years ago. He weighed 7lb 8.5oz, so was pretty much average for a boy. For the first few weeks he was putting on weight perfectly fine. Then at baby clinic when he was about 2 months old we discovered he had suddenly stopped gaining weight. He'd gone from just below the 50th percentile, to close to the 2nd. At the time it was thought that I was not making enough milk, or that he was just not feeding properly, so we started supplementing the breast feeds with bottle feeds, and weaning him onto baby rice at 3 months. From this point on, his weight remained fairly stable around the 9th percentile.
His entire life we had people regularly comment on how thin he was. His ribs and other bones were visible, and people would start when we went swimming/on the beach etc. I would often speak to the GP about his weight when we went for a consultation if he was ill, and was always told that some children just are very slim, and that he would fill out when he was older. His father was very thin as a child, so it was thought Alex's thinness was genetic. He usually had a lot of energy, and enjoyed karate, football with friends and skateboarding.
He often seemed to suffer from bouts of depression, which didn't seem right for a small child. He didn't find school easy, and it took us asking from the beginning of year 3 to the end of year 5 to get an assessment.
Alex tended to get ill quite often. Not serious things, but a lot of coughs, colds, and regular bouts of tonsillitis which made him really ill.
At the beginning of February 2011 he was really ill with a particularly nasty case of tonsillitis. He had to have a week off school and antibiotics. The day before he was due to return to school, just as he seemed so much better and almost back to his normal self, he started to experience terrible abdominal pains. These left him crying and moaning doubled over on the settee. We went to the GP who diagnosed Mesenteric Adenitis - an inflammation of the glands under the abdominal muscles, which although painful would go away by itself within 10 days. After 10 days Alex was still in constant pain, groaning the entire time he was awake. He didn't leave the sofa for 2 weeks (other than to use the bathroom) - not even to play on the xbox360 which he loves so much.
Back to the GP we went. He was stumped, and contacted the hospital who said Alex should be admitted for investigations. A whole raft of blood and urine tests were done, which showed nothing. He had his abdomen x-rayed, but this only showed a stomach shadow. One consultant thought it was appendicitis, but the surgeon examined him and said it wasn't. So we stayed over night, Alex with a drip in his arm, and waited for more doctors to see him in the morning.
Doctors rounds in the morning, and Alex's bed was surrounded by lots of junior doctors and students as well as a lovely consultant. The consultant was wonderful. Knew exactly what to say to put Alex at his ease. He thought that Alex was severely constipated from being dehydrated during the tonsillitis, and prescribed an enema and medication to get his bowels into a regular pattern.
Alex was discharged that evening after the successful enema, and with a big box of Laxido powder. The Laxido sorted out his bowels, but the pain although lessened never went away completely. So back we went to the GP (a different one this time) who thought it might be stress related, and gave Alex medication for stomach migraines. All through this episode, we have faced constant implications that the pain was either in Alex's head, that it was caused by stress, or somehow by my worrying! Well, we finished the bottle of migraine medicine but it didn't help at all. Alex was back at school by this time, doing as much as he could. The school were aware of the situation, and were pretty supportive. In total Alex was off school for almost the entire month of February, first with tonsillitis then with the abdominal pains.
After the migraine medicine did nothing at all, we went back to the GP again. This time we saw the first GP again. He decided to refer Alex to the paediatric clinic as an outpatient. Of course this being the NHS it took 2 months between seeing the GP and seeing the consultant.
We were very happy to discover the consultant Alex was seeing was the one who'd been so nice at the hospital. He even remembered Alex (it had been 3 months since he'd seen him), and that while he'd been in hospital he'd eaten lots of bowls of Cocoa Pops! The consultant told us that if nothing else showed up, abdominal pains are just classed as Irritable Bowl Syndrone, and that it was likely this would be the case with Alex, and that he would be referred to a psychologist to help him deal with it. He wanted to rule a few things out first though, so took bloods to test for coealiac disease, chron's disease and food allergies, as well as sending him for an ultrasound. He reviewed the bloods taken at the hospital and saw that Alex had iron-deficiency anaemia with small red cells, so started him on iron supplements twice a day.
The more I read about coealiac disease, the more things seemed to fit into place, but a month later we still had not got the appointment for the ultrasound through, and as we hadn't heard about the blood test results, we thought they must have all been negative.
Then out of the blue yesterday (Tuesday 21st June 2011), I got a phone call from the consultant Alex has been seeing. He said the test for Coeliac Disease had been positive, and that Alex would need to go to the children's hospital for a biopsy. He's referred Alex to a Dietitian, and said he will be able to get various foods on prescription.
So finally we got somewhere! All those Drs, teachers etc who implied it was in Alex's head couldn't have been more wrong. I am so thankful that we had such a thorough and kind consultant.
The consultant has told us to get tested too, as he thinks what was diagnosed as IBS when I was pregnant with Alex may well be coeliac disease. So my daughter and I are off for the blood test next week.
We have to carry on with wheat until after the biopsy, but the consultant is fairly certain it will be positive. And then everything will change! I am so glad that we have finally got to the bottom of the problem, so we can get him better. I know it won't be easy, but I'm sure we'll all get used to it pretty quickly.
I plan to use this blog to keep track of developments in Alex's diagnosis, and then how we cope with living with Coeliac Disease. It will be a good place to share recipe ideas too. Alex is a very fussy eater anyway, and we're all vegetarians so added complications!
If anyone has any websites or books they can recommend, that would be great! Would love to hear from other coeliac parents too :)